weird
| is it normal for your exboyfriends current girlfriend (the one he broke up with you for) to start im'ing you and trying to become friends with you? is she just trying to make me jealous? trying to make sure i don't steal her boyfriend back from her. well i assure you the first is kind of working...as for the second...i have no intentions of trying to get back with him at all. first of all he has made it clear that he doesnt want me...second of all...hes been a jerk to me in many ways....and lastly...i loved him and if he is happy with her then i'm glad and i have no intentions of ruining that for him. am i hurt? sure. am i jealous? sure but that doesnt mean i'm going to ruin it for him because he hurt me. i don't know why she is suddenly interested in becoming my friend....life is weird. i got a paper back today that i worked really really hard on....and it was a good paper...but i got 2 out of 10 points on the stupid thing. all because my professor grades insanely hard. the first 5 points i got taken off was because the spacing in between the header and the first paragraph was a little off...not even much...maybe half a line or something...stupid. the other 3 points were taken off because i accidently put qoutation marks in my paper once and we aren't supposed to use them. i was so angry. oh well. this weekend i'm helping with the aquire the fire conferance friday and saturday then on sunday and monday i'm helping at a kids church retreat thing at my church. next weekend i'm helping with a youth retreat all weekend at my church. spring break is coming up...i wanna go somewhere but i don't really have anywhere to go. blah. the next two weekends will be fun though. i'm excited. classes are busy right now i have a ton to do. so on that note...i'm gonna go read about developmental psychology in adolescents now. |
I think that is odd. I’d ask her about it. Especially, if I remember correctly, she doesn’t live near you or go to school with you and your only connection is the ex. Who knows, maybe she’s having troubles and is passively trying to get perspective on his previous relationships. But it wouldn’t hurt to be up front and just inquire. A little “Hey, how did you get my im? I know you are dating “jerk-face, poop-breath,” and I’m a little unclear why you’re contacting me or trying to start a friendship. I have no intentions of re-visiting my relationship with "butthead," he hurt me by his actions and frankly I’m a little uncomfortable communicating with his current girlfriend.”
I consider this tactful and considerate. I, on the other hand am not tactful, nor considerate. So my communication would be: “Don’t talk to me. I don’t know or care about your intentions in talking to me, but your boyfriend – and allow me to remind you, my EX-boyfriend - is a jerk-face, poop breath and I have no wish to communicate with the girl he left me for, you Lolita. Thank you and goodnight.” But, I’ve never been able to make friends easily.
I think you need a Holly vacation. As in, go somewhere you wanna go. A mini vacation or something. Although I understand that could be expensive to a college student. As you know, I still have an air mattress at my place. |
